At least 3 of those guys were much better looking than me and better than me in probably a lot of other ways too. For instance, using at least 3 photos on Tinder will get you 6x more matches than just using 1. Idk how to fix this. You're a photographer, you should know this more than anyone else what angles make you look good or makes you look bad etc. Which brings us to I look like shit when i smile too, it's not a good look for me trust me! Instead, you can spend the same amount of time sending multiple women a message that seems like you wrote it just for her.
How do I attract people I actually want to date?
Why Online Dating Doesn’t Work For Most Guys (And What To Do About It)
NYC lifestyle blog by Mary Lane. Also, not all girls are this picky. This is a community. Online dating is no different. You can only dangle that carrot full hope for so long before the animal loses interest all togeather. You say you like hiking, so maybe a picture of you in a pretty landscape or by the mountains?