When I was young and in high school I let everything get to me. Husband 9 was a gynecologist. I don't feel negative about it, and I'll tell you why: I actually don't hear to many virgin jokes. Church One Sunday in church the priest told the ladies. She tells him to tie her to a bed and do whatever he wants.
But my friends' jokes about this used to bug me, but they don't any more.
I'm teased about being a virgin all the time, but I'm pretty sure it's because the people making the jokes are jealous that I can have a happy, healthy, long-term relationship without sex and they can't even hold a relationship for longer than a month or two but they get sex. On their wedding night, she told her new husband, "Please be gentle, I'm still a virgin. This time, the girl said, "Put that fucking thing away unless you intend to use it! MadRat, that is the stereotype talking. Following a real scorcher of a sermon on the New Morality, the preacher asked for all the virgins in his congregation to stand and be recognized. Agreed on the assumed naivety. He said everything checked out diagnostically, but he just couldn't get the system up.