Hope some of this helped, best of luck. I forgot to mention INFP. Do you make it obvious that you like him for more than friends? Are iluded by the Men. It's not just because your mind works logically, it's because you've become ungrounded thus disconnecting mind and body leading you to freeze up, they work together man. All you have to do is state what you think, but you have to state it like a typical INTJ, like you know what you're talking about because its likely you know extensively what you're talking about. I try to figure out how I can help them confront their issues in a manageable way and do thoughtful things to make them smile.
At the end of the day, you have two choices in love — one is to accept someone just as they are and the other is to walk away.
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Just out of curiosity, do you ask him how he's doing? In addition, the list is intended for male readership, and may not take into account the opinions and preferences of female INTJs. English is not my first languange so I hope it is understandble. You need a base for every relationsship, so chatting up strangers and highlight clothes or details - might get you talking, but still: Most people think being funny is natural, and to an extent they are right.