I asked him about this, and told him that while I had no wish to pry into his personal life, the question for me was whether he was looking to keep his options open for now, it being early days. It takes a real commitment to put the time and effort into healing, so whatever incentive works for you; go with it. You need to persevere with what you learn, and change yourself into the ideal lover. But either one is very useful. If you do not change the underlying dynamics of your marriage, which you can accomplish without his involvement, this, and other problems, will keep cropping up again, and again. At that stage I was ready to end the relationship and leave him to it.
Do not be the reason it fails.
What To Do If You Find Your Husband On Dating Sites?
Usually he remains passive, waiting to see if his wife is sincere. We want your marriage to be resuscitated and set back on track; to be better than ever. A quick Google search on his user name revealed another three, all with very recent logins. It is what we are here for. It is not easy to hear that your husband would not have strayed if your marriage was better.