If that relationship he's in is a rebound which it sounds likethen you should not continue to stay hopeful in one place but at least move on a little, so that you don't constantly think of it. Put myeslf out there. This would help him build his comfort level towards you, and you should only take it forward from there. You said he cheated on you, destroyed your self esteem, and he uses people. And neither one of them can give you an accurate description of what the relationship meant to her. By forever being available and there for your partner, it's easy for your partner to take advantage of that and take you for granted in the process because it becomes a boring relationship to him.
Then about four months ago I started suspecting he was cheating on me with some girl he met in a whatsapp group we share.
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We labeled ourselves as best friends. We started talking very briefly via texts a month ago and she'd respond to my texts but never initiated. She didn't speak to me the way she used to and kept breaking up text conversations in the middle. I am just afraid that not talking to him is bringing him and the girl closer together. If you're really sure that she's your soulmate and you're willing to wait, if after you apply NC and she is still upset with you, that means that it may be still too soon and you have to give her even more time, continuing with NC for as long as necessary. Hi, so i was dating this girl for about 2 years and we loved each other very much. Hey Ryan, I was with my ex for 9 years.