Sign up for the Thought Catalog Weekly and get the best stories from the week to your inbox every Friday. Even expressing this will make her feel more comfortable, more connected and more up for round two and three and four. I like how intimate sex feels, how close we can get physically and emotionally. Instead of circling your tongue to find her sweet spot or mindlessly fingering her until she pushes you on her to begin sex, try something new: A great place to start, recommended by many experts, is talking to your partner about the ways her oral sex experience could be better. Read next on IOL.
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Why women love oral sex
And the tongue is a favourite because it is soft and warm, and because saliva is a natural lubricant that prevents 'burn' from dry stimulation. Sure, you likely made grabs for other regions and pushed as far as your high school girlfriend would let you, but what was so intense about those first fleeting moments of innocence was this sense of discovery. As awareness of women's sexual response grows, especially that stimulating the clitoris is the singularly most important route to female orgasms, pleasuring a woman orally is increasingly likely to take centre stage. Surveys also show that many young people are not aware that they can pick up a wide range of sexually transmitted diseases such as HIV, the herpes simplex virus, human papillomavirus HPVhepatitis B, gonorrhea, syphilis and chlamydia through unprotected oral sex advocatesforyouth. In vaginal intercourse, guys typically orgasm more quickly from the stimulation this provides the penis - and women usually need to be stimulated for a longer period than their partners are able to last. I like a combination of the two.